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2boysnamedR · 12/06/2014 21:53

What a day! Toddler had portage and his overall age is 9 months even though he was two this march. Portage said his genetic condition has been linked to balance hence his and brothers dyspraxia I guess.

My darling middle ds has his private ed psych ready for tribunal in October.

My eldest got in trouble last week with the head - he is my gifted kid, going off the rails. Home link worker talked to him and he said its anger from living with his brother.

My baby is due in ten weeks. I'm facing another sn child due to this gene. I am consultant led due to previous pre eclampsia. I found out last week I have placenta previa so may need a section.

Early years has offered to call in social services to give me emergency care if I do need a section.

I surprisingly feel ok. The only thing that almost made me cry today was the home link worker telling me about sn kid with a autistic brother who he can't play with. The boy said he felt ribbed of a brother :0( I feel robbed of a family and children and a normal life.

All this and no one will ever hear it from my lips as no one gets it. My sister said about the gene thing "you can let it define you" but my kids are my life they define me hence sn defines me right now.

If you read that far well done :0)

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bluebirdonmyshoulder · 12/06/2014 22:09

Honking for you here. You sound like you have a lot on your plate, take all the support you can and look after yourself.

Best wishes with your pregnancy. Do you know if this baby has the same condition yet?

lougle · 12/06/2014 22:11

That's tough. A honk hardly seems enough, but

HONK!!!!

Ineedmorepatience · 12/06/2014 22:13

Honking and flapping madly for you 2boys Smile

2boysnamedR · 12/06/2014 22:19

Thanks, I only found out the gene about a month ago so baby will be tested once born. Whatever I will be watching it like a hawk for the delays. I can't remember what a normal toddler is like, first words, first aww of the world. First time they tell you they love you and call you mummy.

Feels like my life is too far fetched for was tenders right now!! Makes ten years ago seem positively boring!

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2boysnamedR · 12/06/2014 22:20

Eastenders I mean! Any dyslexia gene is from me :0)

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Skylar123 · 12/06/2014 22:25

HONK HONK HONK 2boys

ballsballsballs · 12/06/2014 22:38

Another Honk from me op

2boysnamedR · 12/06/2014 22:52

Thanks. Such a relief to have booked a psych for the tribunal. At least some positive this week. Hope she's good! The jury is 50:50 on opinions of what our chances are of wining. Whatever I will know I did all i could.

Not sure about the social services emergency care. Part of fears us being in their radar but at the same time how can I cope without any help after a major op?

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Skimmingstones · 13/06/2014 06:09

Honking for you too, it sounds like a difficult time with so much going on

NoRunAround · 13/06/2014 08:14

Honk Brew

stillstandingatthebusstop · 13/06/2014 08:38

My friend (who doesn't MN Shock) just had a big op and had emergency care from ss: In the form of a carer coming into the house. It was invaluable.

Honk honk honk ThanksThanksThanks

zzzzz · 13/06/2014 10:23

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bjkmummy · 13/06/2014 10:35

another honk here xxx

KOKOagainandagain · 13/06/2014 11:45

HONK

I have had 2 sections and despite getting a wound infection they weren't too bad in comparison. Don't decline any support you are entitled to though - this is not a time for heroics. Smile

ouryve · 13/06/2014 13:16
Cake

And another piece for the baby.

Kleinzeit · 13/06/2014 16:22

Honk!
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