My DS is 13 and has Asbergers. My DD is 9 and does not. I have been unable to find out, despite calling Thorpe park for advice, if my DS and DD are allowed to both use the exits to gain entry to the rides as queuing will be impossible. I understand from the website that l can go as his carer and that both he and l can use the exits to gain entry, but have been told that my daughter must queue normally. We have always gone to Legoland as they are so good at welcoming the group (up to 6) with the person with special needs. I am a bit upset that Thorpe Park would split the family and the whole point of a family day out is to see each other and not just meet at the end of the day to travel home. Has anyone else taken a child with special needs and managed to stay as a family unit?