Hi, I have had some great advice from here in the past, and hope someone can clarify this for me.
DS is 5 in year R. (was 5 in Sept, so is of compulsory school age)
He has behaviour issues, we have no diagnosis, and up until last week school, EP, etc all said there is no way he would get a statement, so don't even bother trying. Now they say they are going to start collecting evidence to apply for one.(this is good, we want one)
In October he was put on a part time timetable, then split his time between school and a specialist BSED setting. This seemed to help, and before Easter it was decided he could return to mainstream school full time.
Since then it has all gone wrong. We have been phoned to collect him on several occasion, which I know is unlawful, but we weren't given much chance to dispute it. We have asked for it to be put in writing to create a paper trail. We are still waiting for this.
Now, if you have read all that thanks.
On Wed a meeting took place which they refused to let us go to. I'm not even sure who did go, but we have been offered 2 options.
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he goes to school 5 half days a week, and is at home the other half days, with work sent home for him.
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He attend school 3 days a week, and a BESD setting 2 days (a different one to before, newly built, closer to home than the last one) On the 3 days he attends school, we have to collect him for lunch, and they will tell us if he has behaved well enough to be allowed back in the afternoon.
Please help.
I think option 1 is unlawful, as it is exclusion by the back door, excluding him for half a day every day, not even depending on his behaviour. Do they have to write him an exclusion letter every day? I thought he could only be excluded for a max of 5 days a term, and only for reasons of behaviour, which this won't be, as it will be set out in writing before hand that he will be at home each day.
Also, it seems to me that hanging about at home for hours every day, even with some work sent home, will be of no benefit to him, only to the school as it will mean they don't need to deal with him for a few hours. He will not learn, get interaction with other children, be helped to deal with his anxieties etc.
Option 2 seems a bit better, the BSED centre seemed to work last time, but as soon as he stopped going he got worse, seeming to me that the work they did was not continued in school.
However, the option of being told not to come back after lunch on his school days seems unlawful again.
So can anyone advise me what I can do? Do I have to accept one of these options, or are they both unlawful? If they are, what can I do to convince the school to change them. and to what?
Sorry to ramble for so long, I wanted to make sure I included everything, and its 5.30 am and i have barely slept.