Transport for 5 year old?

[Bilberry]

Just when we thought we knew where we stand a space has opened up at a language unit and the LA wonder if we want to be considered (won't necessarily get) for it. It is not the one we wanted but as ds speech is definitely a problem we feel we have to try and get a place.

The problem is it is a 45 minute taxi ride. Ds will be just 5 and starting school so I am worried how he will cope. Has anyone else had this? He will probably be on his own as I understand 45 mins is max travel time and it would take all of that in rush hour. Would it write-off any after school activities?

Dd2 has a 45 minute minibus ride to sp sch as they have to do multiple pick ups she's fine

I was really worried about the transport when dd got sn nursery place. Also about 30-45 mins. She was only 3.5 when it started but it turned out to be surprisingly OK for her. She has always liked being in cars/buses. Its escorted, they pick up 5 children locally, she's the last pick up first drop off and most days she enjoys it. They are supposed to come round meet you etc before it all starts but predictably that's chao ic and communication be la and transport leaves a lot to be desired

But she's safe and happy and can access a nursery with the facilities she needs. Plus over Dec they had Christmas lights and carols which made me

Firs timer that's lovely dd2 has a lovely escourt and driver

Ds1 has gone to school via transport taxi since he was 4 and a half. Around an hour's journey each way

I fretted like mad beforehand but he was absolutely fine. He adapted to the routine v v quickly and because he was so happy and comfortable at his new school he obviously saw the drive as a very small price to pay!

It actually offers valuable 'decompression' time for him too, after an intense day at school he can chill out and process it on the way home!

Do they always have escorts? The school didn't think he would have one. It is also very likely he would be on his own, sister does your ds go on his own? I can see being part of a group would be more fun but must lengthen the journey especially if not all children are ready by the door for pick up!

Dd1 has gone by taxi since she was 4.9. She has 3 other children and an escort. Is part of her day and she adores it. The escorts play games on the journey, decorate the bus for special events, birthdays etc., give gifts at Easter and Christmas.... It's wonderful.

Ds went on his own (with an escort) for the first year and since then has been with one other boy who lives locally.

I think going in a larger vehicle with more children would not have suited ds as he prefers quiet and calm as he watches the world go by from the car window. And being largely non verbal he wouldn't have been communicating the other children.

But I'm guessing he would have adapted to it before too long!