He is just so bloody sneaky and i dont understand why he behaves the way he does when myself and dh are not complete pushovers , we stand our ground but still he thinks he can get away with things .
if ds2 wants something he will try any way around to get it .
he is 15 , i know teens can be a challenge and he has aspergers , but still , i dont get it.
a while ago he wanted to ride his bmx bike without the brake on because a few other lads were doing it. dh said he must not take his brake off , but of course he got some tools and did it when dh wasnt there . when i realised and told him he wasnt riding until it was back on it resulted in him going ballistic , smashing my house up and being aggressive , he even smashed his own ipod up. Eventually the brake went back on .
thursday night he told me he was going to the shed to to do some maintenance on it , he said he was pumping tyres up etc . i shouted through to him at one point to check he was ok and he was all 'yeah just making sure its all good to ride'
i have just looked at the bike (hes out at the moment fishing) and hes took the damn brakes off again , he must have rode it like that yesterday without me realising .
so , when dh finds out and we tell him it has to go back on and we are disapointed he has sneakily done it , all hell will break loose.
this is just one example of how it goes .
last weekend was hideous , i got shook around like a ragdoll as ds2 was going mad that he couldnt go fishing . he never seems to learn .
He lies , he tries to manipulate and control . he is bloody hard work . i didnt think these were features of AS but if not then what the hell have i done wrong ?
if i take the bike away for months , id bet he would do it again.