Hello all
I just wanted to update everyone on our statement situation and share some lessons learnt. First of all I want to thank every one on this board for all your help. I dont think I could have done this without you lot and Fiona.
So the background is that we have a non-verbal ASD 4y7m old girl. She is starting reception in Sept 2014. We started ABA/VB in Feb 2013 and self funded it. We then requested the LEA to provide ABA on the statement. LEA did not agree with our view that she was making progress on ABA and held the opinion that structured learning during school hours will be enough.
We ended up going to tribunal on that. Education other-wise at home and any education outisde of term time was rejected. In the hearing the current day care gave eveidence against ABA and ended making a fool of themselves by basically saying that even though they know nothing about Autism, never had an autistic or statemented child & can see progress in our daughter(she was getting 15 hrs/week of LSA support, which we were using towards ABA - this is the only sensible thing this day care had done so far), but dont agree with ABA/VB methods. The hearing was a long one and in the end it was adjourned because all the evidence could not be heard.
I had visited our school of choice in Jan 2014 and they had agreed to take us on with the condition that the statement should come with funding from LEA. I have no idea what that means. When the LEA approached them they refused to take us/ABA on. This was quite a shock to us. Most schools were refusing ABA/VB.
At the end of the hearing us and LEA decided to have a chat with the head teacher(who had come to the hearing). Thanks to the day care's evidence (which at that time seemed anti-aba) it became aparant to the head teacher that ABA is something worth looking into(I know!). Fiona spoke to the LEA, we did some iterations on the working document and finally got ABA/VB on it for 6 months(i.e. atleast till the next annual review). The head teacher has made it very clear to us that she wants to trial this. Now I know this is where the whole risk is. Our daughter has started in this school nursery with ABA support. The school can always say at the end of the summer nursery term that ABA isn't working and go against it in the bi-annual review. Fiona and other independent professionals we hired suggested to us that its worth settling and trying out for 6 months. I am not comfortable naming names here.. We are an Essex based London borough if it helps.
Lessons learnt:
- Do not believe the LEA employees when they say you cant apply for the statement. Download this letter now and send it off recorded delivery.. The time starts ticking now...
- Start collecting as much evidence as early as possible. Diagnosis has nothing to do with statement.
- Minute every meeting.. I went with an i-pad in a meeting and kept minuting it.. Was very scary for a lot of people in that meeting and I kept on sending meeting minutes out. Copy everyone and their dog on minutes and clearly state actions and due dates. It does nothing more than send a message out that you are on the ball and will not let them get away with laziness.
- Be friendly. Some of them are actually nice useful people. They wont usually say much against their employer, however, they will many times not say -ve things about your program either.
- Find a friendly school ASAP. Took me a year to get here and looking back I dont think there is anything I could have done differently. I think the only thing I could have done differently,if at all, was to have my ABA/VB consultant visit the daycare more often. I did try to be honest. But that day-care mamager couldnt be arsed. (On that note, suprisingly he has asked my ABA worker to come and do 2 hrs/week with another serverly autistic boy!)
- I dont think there is any point in hiding the fact that you are doing ABA. For some reason I did that and muddled everything badly.
- Network and find out from other families what their experience was. I learnt tons by doing that.
That is all I can think of. IPSEA is a very good place to start
Thanks again. I will keep the group posted and keep posting questions(I already have one!)