We had generally got on well and i have always respected her but just lately she is winding me up and today I could have lost it with her, had she been around at the time she had arranged to meet me!!
The slippery slope started in October when she suggested to me that I put in a parental request for a SA. I did and the LA contacted her, she immediately denied have suggested SA for Dd3 and told the LA that Dd3 doesnt need a statement.
Since then she has cancelled meetings, told lies, faked IEP review sheets, put incorrect information on a form that the LA requested.
Fast forward to today when we were supposed to be meeting with her, the specialist ASD SALT and the EP. I took the day off work because the meeting was in the middle of the day. We arrived at school and she said that the EP wasnt there but we could see the SALT, she then disappeared.
We spoke to the SALT and then waited for her only to be told she had gone out of school with the HT!
We left and I text her to say that I would ring the EP and arrange another meeting. I rang the EP, who unsurprisingly didnt even know we were supposed to be meeting today.
I am so sick of this now, Dd3 is suffering due to her incompetence and her last set of targets didnt get worked on at all. I have spoken to the HT many, many times and to the SEN Governor but am not getting anywhere.
I was glad I rang the EP myself and she was able to answer my questions which I will start another thread about later or tomorrow.
I don't know what to do now about this flippin SENCO but she is sending me bonkers 