I'm really sorry that for even one second you thought you had anything at all to do with me deciding to take a break .. if I'd have come back to look at my bowing out thread before I'd have responded immediately.
Honestly it was nothing to do with you (and tbh I can't imagine how you could think it would be .. I think the thread you thought had prompted me was totally justifiable and worthy of discussion)
but I wanted to apologise for making you feel uncomfortable for even a second .. sorry matey