"I will be the first to publicise that my sons school is the best - I am hoping that day will come soon"
Thank you Kira for your response. We are not unhappy at the school but unhappy that my childs needs have not been met as promised - obviously this causes problems - thats the whole reaason you chose a specialist school because they need specialist help. There is no experience of negligence or uncaring staff - the exact opposite is true, but due to there not being the needed specialist staff within the school time has passed and needs not been met. There has been no specialist teachers, support staff or LA's employed at the school to enable a provision to start with that would make meeting his needs possible.
Autism expertise is of paramount importance to parents and their children with autism and when we move them to a specialist placement - this is what we think they will be getting - a placement to meet their needs.
Despite being told this categorically at the time of chosing the school - it has never been the case as there has been literally no trained staff besides perhaps the one qualified teacher Mel who left and a Teaching Assistant - who also left. And without autism expertise meeting the individual needs its impossible as the children are not understood to begin with. Any parent of a child with autism will confirm this
We have had many telephone conversations and email correspondence - Im not alone and know of at least 10 parents who have a very similar experience to mine.
I have reams of paper and email communication - all about the same unanswered issues.
I can post these here but that serves no purpose. I just want things to improve and I hope we are heading that way.
The fact is, things hint at changing. We are 3 years down the line. I hope that the resources are available to help you make the changes I know you are committed to - time will tell. Alreaady we have additional staff - one with asd experience and more parents vocalising their concerns. I hope that helps bring things to light so that they will be more likley to be acted on.
I am aware that there are parents who are happy with the school. Please reread my post above. The school is perfect for some children at points in their life - but children grow up and mature and their needs change - especially if they are high functioning and you need the expertise to meet those changing needs. But we were told it could meet the need as it was - and it couldnt and it took a very long time for this to be not only clear but clear that it was going to take more time to make the improvements needed - all while we wait. I am hoping we will soon see this happenning as things change and new staff are able to take up some of the workload and implement what is needed.
I will be the first to publicise that my sons school is the best when it is - whatch this space.
Meantime, If anyone thinks I am the exception to the rule please see Wmake school make sense" a report carried out with the collaboration of parents of children with autism and their experiences of finding a placement to meet their childs needs. Poignantly is the part where they cover not have to make a compromise between social communication and academic progress