does anyone ever finds that it gets easier to accept your dcs disability? I just feel so overwhelmed with it all at the moment. dds birthday is a week away and tbh im dreading it. she is so excited already and no doubt it will all be to much for her to cope with on the actual day. we are in the middle of preparing our evidence for tribunal over dds statement and the la are using every trick in the book to oppose our appeal (lying about dds progress in case statement, manipulating dds response to therapy etc).
I never imagined this would be how we would be celebrating her birthday. dont get me wrong I would not change dd for the world, she is beautiful, imaginative, creative and a wonderful little girl but I just wish that maybe life could be easier for her. I find it so hard to accept and incredibly saddening that life is such a struggle for her. I also cant believe how hard we are having to fight just to have her needs met at school, its destroying me.
sorry im not really sure what the point of this thread is, I just needed to vent 