DS is 5, has ASD & is in mainstream Reception on SA+. He gets minimal support, the school don't seem to recognise his sensory issues at all, and he's recently had 4 days where he was too anxious to go to school because of finding the playground too noisy at breaktimes. He's very anxious about school generally, reluctant to go most days, and comes home for lunch every day.
I've been hassling for an IEP since September, specifically said I wanted a meeting to discuss it, and now finally I've just been handed a copy of it by DS's class teacher - I haven't been involved in the process at all.
The targets are:
- I can leave my mum at the door and begin coming in with the rest of my class mates, putting my things away independently.
- I can begin going outside for playtime at morning and afternoon play.
- I can use the pictures and prompting to help me talk about how I feel with Miss Teacher and Mrs TA. I can begin to express when I feel anxious or worried, with support from an adult.
I can see that the 3rd target is quite sensible, but the other 2 have incensed me. They won't help his learning in any way, it seems to just be about making him do what the other children are doing, and all it is likely to achieve is make him even more anxious. Also, there are things he does need help with like social interaction & writing which haven't been addressed at all.
Also the school calls it a Personal Education Plan rather than an IEP, but surely they can't say it doesn't have to follow the guidelines for and IEP just because they've called it something different, can they?
Sorry, that got a bit long & ranty.