Hi all
I have been recommended to this board from the general children's health board.
Our DD (now just 10mo) was born 9w premature but after the initial stay of 10 days in NICU, has gone from strength to strength constitutionally.
She developed a squint at 3/4mo and when we eventually were referred to Moorfields they suggested a neuro check. This resulted in an MRI scan. In terms of development she is about 3 to 4 months behind the end of the acceptable ranges (held head strong at 7 mo, is trying to sit now but cannot do mini push ups, does not feed herself).
The good news was all around the eyes is fine, so a small op should correct the squint and give a good chance of 3D vision we are told.
The bad news is that the MRI showed reduced white matter and thin collosum.
The neurologist has stated that we need to stimulate (we will see a specialist paed for instructions) and that her brain may work its way and realise to use the remaining white matter. She stated that DD will walk, talk but when I asked about education, etc. I received a "wait, monitor and see" comment.
Now, we love DD to bits, her smiles and giggles mean I will always be there for her but we all hope our children will go on to have happy independent lives and then we have been hit with this.
I wonder if anyone has any experience, or could advise at what point they realised that their children had special needs.
Also, if anyone knows of any stimulating techniques/objects we should be using, all advice is welcome.
TIA
G