Ds 17 has complex needs AS, severe OCD and dyslexia are the main ones.
He has been under CAMHS since he was 9 and has had a social worker since he was discharged from a long hospital stay when he was 14.
For the last year he has had support workers coming in 4 evenings a week to help implement the work he has been doing on his OCD with CAMHS psychologist. The workers were employed by SS but working under the direction of CAMHS. At the end of last year it was clear that this strategy had gone as far as it could and he is now waiting another inpatient admission. CAMHS wanted the support to remain to maintain the progress he had made until the admission but SS refused further funding.
The support workers had raised some pretty petty concerns about my parenting with the SW and after a lot of hassle it was agreed that most of them were irrelevant but she suggested that I do some parenting work with the support worker. I agreed mainly to get them off my back. However after one session it was clear that the strategy she was using was not designed for families where there are disabilities and that the worker had no idea how to adapt things (it was also extremely patronising). I said that I no longer wished to engage with it and this was accepted.
Although the SW got on her high horse about the parenting she is actually efficient and good at pushing for things so I was happy for her to continue as ds's key worker especially as she was taking the lead role in his transition to adult services which will happen in September.
That's the background.
Just after Christmas I had a call from the SW saying that SS has decided to close ds's case. At a subsequent meeting she said that this was because SS have changed their referral criteria and ds doesn't fit the new ones and so it is out of her hands. She said that his CAMHS key worker would take on the keyworking role and could access whatever was needed. She said that this had been agreed between herself, the CAMHS worker and their respective bosses.
However I spoke to this person (primary mental health worker) today and she said that she was only a keyworker within CAMHS and anything else is outwith her remit. She seemed confused herself as to what was happening. She has been involved with us for 10 years and I know that she is an not very efficient caring carrot so I would not want her in the keyworking role at this critical time anyway.
The situation came up in a discussion with Dd's psychologist who suggested that there was a lot of politics going on. I don't care about their politics but I do want to make sure that ds has the best possible outcome in moving to adult services.
Any advice or insight warmly received.
(and sorry about the essay)