Ds's gp has suggested some blood tests to check ds's iron levels etc, he is extremely pale, tires very quickly and his hair is coming out very easily where he twiddles it. He has a very limited diet, and craves far too much sweet stuff and fat.
This is what he eats
breakfast - best of both bread toasted with butter and jam (I tried an olive oil spread, which was dribbled out onto the table).
cereal (Rice Krispies little men) with soya milk (won't drink cows milk)
lunch - pork pie chopped into little cubes (sometimes leaves the sausage part) or sausages (skinned and chopped up) yoghurt drink (like actimel)
tea - jacobs cream cracker or toast with dairylea + organix crisps. petit filous or vanilla ice cream
Drinks water with a little apple or orange juice.
He will also have biscuits or cake for a snack, refuses the snack at preschool.
I always put cut up apple, sweetcorn and peas on the plate, which he used to eat, but now refuses. He used to have the fruit puree pouches, again he now refuses these, so he is basically getting no fruit or veg.
He eats with us and/or the dds and I regularly put different foods out for him, to encourage him to try other things, but he will push them away or bang his head on the table if he really wants it as far away as possible (eg banana)
I have tried every vitamin supplement I can, but he won't take any, and detects even the tiniest drop hidden in juice, yoghurt or ice cream.
He saw a dietician when he was a lot younger and frankly she was a bit useless, gave me some healthy eating sheets, annabel karmel recipes and suggested he take a supplement or drink follow on formula (which he wouldn't touch).
OT suggested the usual hands in cold spaghetti and trying to get him playing with jelly (won't even stay in the same room as pasta or jelly now)
Off my own back I have tried little portions with a reward of things like ipad/chocolate button etc if he touches it etc, but again absolute refusal.
Sorry this is so long, but .I am at a bit of a loss what to do next