Looking for any help or advice really as I am in quite a bad situation financially right now. I had to leave my last 2 jobs (and also drop out of uni) due to amongst other things, DD and the need for me to be there to pick up the pieces when things go wrong at school. On average I'm called by school 2-3 times per week, but sometimes its every day, sometimes multiple times a day. Then there is also the 'chats' after school and the fact they won't have her at after school club meaning I have to be there every day at 3pm.
I have had my JSA stopped because I simply can't find enough jobs to apply for that would fit the hours I'm available and is close enough if I need to leave. I can't get income support either as my DC are too old and I'm not sick. I was told to apply for carers allowance instead, but I've read through the info and it is only for people looking after someone on DLA, which DD doesn't have.
Would it be worth applying, even though she has no actual proper diagnosis of anything? It really is my last hope as the only income I currently have is child benefit and tax credits. DD does have a statement if that would help, but apart from that we have nothing else official. she has seen several other professionals in connection with that that hinted at possibilities, but then discharged DD leaving me no wiser.
So is it possible to get DLA with no diagnosis or am I (most likely) clutching at straws? and if not what the hell do I do next?