We have to go with the legal situation because individual parents' experiences simply show failings in the application of the system. Yes, those failings can be systemic. No, those failings should not be denied. But parents can't be given advise here based on 'what I've seen happen' because it will intrinsically skew the likelihood of parents applying for SA in the first place.
Lets say that one poster asks for advice. Someone (Keep in this instance) says 'you won't get agreement for SA unless your child has 13.5 hours 1:1 support in place'.
That poster may, or may not, decide to go for it anyway.
However, there could be 30, 40 or even 50 lurkers, or people who come along at a later date, searching the threads. All of whom think that the situation is black and white: '13.5 hours 1:1 before SA.'
There is no legislation, guidance or otherwise which says ' a child must be getting 13.5 hours 1:1 support before SA will go ahead.'
I also think we need to remember that 1:1 support is not the only provision that schools can provide, and that all provision costs money. My DD2 is having 'Dragonflies' twice per week. It isn't 1:1 - she's in a group of 5, with 2 LSAs. It costs money and therefore, it would go towards the £6000.
Also, the floor of £6,000 has nothing to do with Statementing per se. It isn't the case that funding > £6000 = SA. Nor is it the case that funding < £6000 does not = SA. There will be children who have statements, whose provision is less than £6000. Those children's statements will be funded by their schools.
Statements are for children whose schools cannot reasonably meet their needs out of their own resources. That may be a quantitative measure (this provision is too expensive) or qualitative (the school doesn't have access to this therapy/provision/resource without LA support).
So I disagree that I see things 'as they should be'. I see things as they are. In saying that, I don't deny that some parents are subjected to practices that are not legal, or are decidedly skewed in their interpretation of the law, or are implemented badly.