He is 9, it's little things, we had issues with him smearing poo on toilet and on walls in bedroom for a few years not a lot but enough my dd didn't like using their toilet, and no matter what we said he wouldn't stop finally asked him again and turned out tissues to rough so was using his hands to clean himself. Got wet wipes and he has used those but not always. So not had smearing for a long while.
Current issue is his bedroom stinks of wee! Not sure what that is yet and ds is saying he hasn't done anything?
He is a fussy eater and list of foods is slowly diminishing.
Getting to brush his teeth was hard work, he didn't like toothpaste including the strawberry. Finally cracked this we think with oranurse toothpaste and battery brush.
He often comes home from School with minor issues that have happened with friends.
He has a temper often throwing things. Likes to be left alone to calm down. Doesn't usually last long
Is rude to my parents in that he will ignore them at times even to say hello.
We went to a family BBQ in summer about 12 of us there, he didn't know 2 of them but spent most if time in house
Thing is, it doesn't affect us massively but we there are times when he will do something and we think that's not normal but then have a period of time where it is fine.
Our main concern is when he goes secondary.
My parents and dh dad thinks his behaviour isn't normal but we are not sure.