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Tips for getting non compliant teen to do arm exercises (erbs palsy)

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HECTheHeraldAngelsSing · 23/12/2013 12:22

He's 14 and has autism. He also has Erbs Palsy and he's had 2 operations and years ago they said that there was no more they could do, he had all the fuction he was ever going to have, all that could be done now was exercises to build muscle, keep everything as flexible as possible, etc.

Well, he has heavy keloid scaring from his ops which is painful but he won't allow me to massage it, which the pysio says would help.

his shoulder blade is winging but he won't wear his supports.

His elbow is becoming fixed and he appears to be losing some of his (previously amazingly good for the severity of his injury!) function, but he won't do his exercises.

he won't wear his wrist weight.

He won't do his stretches.

he won't do his fine motor skills practice (se?)

he understands (or at least says he does) that the consequences of letting that arm 'go' is that he won't be able to use it. That does not motivate him. It is his left arm, he is right handed, he has always found a way round everything and I just think he doesn't see the value of his left arm [boggle]

I have had many conversations with the physio and ot who insist that I must not force him (since he's nearly 5 10 to my 5 1 I don't think I could anyway!)

Do you have a child that has to have daily physio but is resistant? how do you motivate / convince them?

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HECTheHeraldAngelsSing · 23/12/2013 12:23

You know. I have betrayed myself here. I have put it in children when he is a teenager.
Blush
shows how I still see him, doesn't it?
I'm going to ask for it to be moved. Grin

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PolterTurkey · 23/12/2013 13:11

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HECTheHeraldAngelsSing · 23/12/2013 13:22

Grin yes. I know. I'm going to be one of those mothers whose baby is 72 years old Blush

ok, never mind MNHQ if you read this before shifting it, I am cancelling my request!

The only alternative they have is that he should do his normal 'day to day' things.

that would be sitting on his backside, glued to his consoles then Grin

He's got every aid known to man and every excuse why he can't use it.

He's scared his theraband with ping him in the face (to be fair, so am I!)

He's worried he'll fall off his balance ball.

He can't move his arm with the wrist weight on it

The arm support makes him itchy

His scar hurts when he stretches

He can't lift the pole above his head

He HAS to finish this level on whatever game it is he happens to be obsessing over at the time

etc etc

Fairly typical teen, truth be told Grin

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