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Proud mum of Y7 ASD DD

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Schmedz · 22/12/2013 19:51

Her report indicates that her effort and achievement ( in a mainstream classroom) are either 'comfortably meeting expectations' and even, in some subjects, 'very good'.
Not only has she managed to submit almost every piece of homework on time and find where she should be for most of her classes most of the time, but she is achieving just below the median grade in every subject (except maths...she hasn't quite 'got' maths yet...)
She has joined sport, music, drama and debating clubs and even made a few new friends.
She is exhausted at the end of every day, but is enjoying school.
So pleased and proud for her and wanted to share with others who might understand what a HUGE achievement this is.

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RalphRecklessCardew · 22/12/2013 19:52

Congratulations!!!!!ThanksThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks

Schmedz · 22/12/2013 19:59

Grin thank you!

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PolterTurkey · 22/12/2013 20:03

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Schmedz · 22/12/2013 20:17

In preparing her personally, we made sure her desk was all set up with different coloured magazine folders to file books/texts for each subject. She keeps her books and texts together in clear coloured folders so she always has everything she needs for each subject lesson. She has a set of stationery at school and at home so it doesn't matter if she forgets to bring home her pencil case.
There is a school timetable on display above her desk along with a homework timetable so she can remember to check her planner for subjects she should have on a particular night.

She also packs her school bag the night before and leaves it, along with any other equipment she needs by the door before going to bed. Really helps not to have to think about what she needs in the morning when she is still waking up!

Before starting at the school there was an induction day and the class reps also organised an informal picnic for the students to get together a few days before the term began. The school also has a buddy system where older students are paired with the y7s and help them find their way around.

In regard to her Aspergers, I met numerous times with the SENCO who had full copies of all her reports and IEPs from primary school. She is great for keeping in touch and also teaches DD for one of her subjects and always has a little chat about how things are going at the end of each lesson they have. When there have been issues, she emails and swiftly deals with them. She has also distributed a list of teaching tips particular to DD to all the staff, who are aware of her peculiarities. Any staff who have had the occasional issue have also been in contact swiftly and asked for advice and support on how to help DD.

She has never had 1:1 support, but as she is weak in maths her teacher has organised for an older student to meet with her once a week during a lunchtime to help 'tutor' her and reinforce the learning. There is no formal support unit at the school, and I get the feeling that the support is very personalised for particular students.

The more information you can give to the SENCO (LS) person the better, and it is helpful to meet with him/her and encourage open and ongoing communication. If the school in general has good pastoral care and good induction for Y7s in general, I think it really helps.

And a positive attitude in the face of all DDs fears was and is sometimes hard to maintain, but seems to really help. We always say that a negative mind will never give you a positive life!

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Schmedz · 22/12/2013 20:19

Forgot to say good luck to your DS in September 2014! It is a scary time for all the family, but thankfully in our case (and I am sure many others) it is not as bad as I had secretly feared (that positive mind and speech is a real effort some days!!)

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Ineedmoretinsel · 22/12/2013 20:57

Great news schmedz, we are just beginning Dd3's transition so it is great to hear a good news story.

Well done to your Dd, her school and of course you Xmas Grin

PolterTurkey · 22/12/2013 21:25

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troutsprout · 22/12/2013 21:33

Yay! Well done that girl !

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