Ds2 has now been send to CAMS for more than a year for an assessment for AS. They have just told us that he is on the wAiting list for the assessment but no idea if the time scale.
Where we are the budgets have been cut by half last year and they were already struggling so my best guess is that we willbiy see the end if that assessment for another 2 or 3 years (it's already taking 2 years for them to assess children in dire need of an assessment, eg children who are then referred to a special school) and ds2 is nowhere near in that category.
I feel we need that assessment. Ds2 needs it to understand why he is reacting differently, ds1 needs it to understand his db (and hopefully helping him not getting resentful).
I gave been looking around for someone to do a private assessment but haven't gone very far. GP said he had no idea and there was probably very very people doing that anyway.
Any recommendation that you could give?