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Feeling a bit down today- RE son with speech disorder.

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Jellyandjam · 28/11/2013 21:34

Yesterday I was feeling really positive and proud of DS who has made massive progress with his speech since starting school in Sept. Today however DD came out of school seeming unhappy. She said that in assembly the teacher had asked a question and DS had tried to answer, the teacher hadn't understood and made a bog thing of it in front of everybody. She then asked for DD to interpret (DD is really quiet and does not like being the centre of attention and felt embarrassed). She also then had children coming up to her in the playground saying why can't your brother speak properly? DD was really upset and said that he actually said it really clearly but he can't say 'th' so said hings instead of things but the rest was really clear. I am a teacher myself and have taught children with less speech than DS and would never make an issue of it in front of the class never mind the whole school!
And so Bam! Just like that all the positive feelings I had yesterday have been pushed aside and now I just feel rubbish again! Sad

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PrinceRogersNelson · 28/11/2013 21:59

Oh I am so sorry. That is awful.
You really must complain. It is not OK to make it obvious you can't understand a small child and it is not OK to ask your daughter to interpret.

My DD is YR and her speech is very difficult to understand. Well done on your DS for speaking up. That is amazing and shows what great confidence he has.

Jellyandjam · 28/11/2013 22:09

Thank you. Yes he is happy to speak out which I know is great and I worry sometimes that things like this will start making him more reluctant to speak out.
The teacher is my DD's teacher, so I think I will have a word with her in the morning, not just about my son but she should know dd well enough to know that she would be uncomfortable with being asked to speak in assembly!
I know how well he is doing and am so proud of him. I just wish the school would notice sometimes too!

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Jellyandjam · 28/11/2013 22:12

Thank you.
Yes I did talk with dd on the way home from school about how she could answer if anyone asked her again, I think she was just a bit taken aback with it today.

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PrinceRogersNelson · 28/11/2013 22:13

Sorry - did I just do that awful thing that I hate other people doing to me, when they point out how great your DC is implying you don't realise yourself. Blush

Jellyandjam · 28/11/2013 22:15

haha, That's okay, it's good to hear it from others too Smile

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Jellyandjam · 30/11/2013 11:35

Well I spoke to her on Friday and she apologised and said it wouldn't happen again. Thanks again for the support when I was feeling down.

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PrinceRogersNelson · 30/11/2013 20:13

I'm glad she said sorry and could see what she did was not OK.

Chottie · 01/12/2013 18:05

I am so glad you followed this up JellyandJam. I hope now that DD's teacher will think in future.

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