Ilikemysleep Thanks for your detailed reply. I definitely got more from your post than I did from my EP.
He only did a performance iq test with him as he already knew he had difficulties with language skills. He obtained scores of 3, 5 and 8 which produced an estimate of 72 with a 95% confidence interval of 67 to 80.
Completely freaked out by this result as I don't really know what this means for his future. Felt sick when I read the report.
I don't know if you had read my pp. This is what the EP said to us in the meeting after he met ds.
^Today we finally got the Educational Psychologist to come to see him at the school.
At the meeting afterwards, he told us that DS1 was delayed by about 3 years and that he had moderate learning difficulties that he didn't think were part of anything else but maybe due to not hearing for 3 years of his early life.
Sounds great, I thought. May get some help so he can catch up. Not so!!
Apparently the council will not give the school anymore money as they have already had their quota of SEN money but it wouldn't matter anyway as DS1 has no chance of catching up. He will always be half to 2/3rds his age. He is nearly 6 but is more like a 3 yo so when he is 9, he will be 4.5 - 6 yo and when he is 16, he will be like a 9 or 12 yo. I said, great so when he is 40, he will be 20-30 but apparently it doesn't work like that so at 16 he just stops learning and will bottom out.
He had said a few minutes before that the pots of money the council give to are those with severe needs who will never live an independent life but my son will but then tells me that DS1 will end up no older than a 12 yo.
All he kept saying was that if he could read to age 9 level then he could manage and not everyone goes to university. I'm not at all hung up on if he goes to nursery or not, but I do want him to have the opportunity to maybe live independently and have a job and a family. If it not meant to be then so be but they seemed to have just decided now that he isn't worth it. He's 5 FGS.^