Tearing our hair out with our 20 month old DD... We have had 3 months of gradually worsening behaviour so that now life is hellish. Every transition is horrendous - she doesn't want to be changed/washed/dressed etc & has huge tantrums over virtually everything. It can take 90 mins to Change a nappy or get her dressed..... She mostly refuses so we end up leaving her shoes & coat on most of the time, even indoors.
Tantrums is putting it mildly... She seems to throw things a lot.... She isn't saying loads but can say probably 10 words & whilst she doesn't play much ... i think she seems normal in other ways.
Her 4.5 yo brother has a tentative diagnosis of ASD with PDA. He was very very difficult but this is a whole new ball game. What the hell do we do? I have got the GP to refer us to the CDC. But this doesn't help me get through tomorrow or the next day. And I'm assuming that CDC will want to wait & see anyway....? Has anyone got any ideas or advice please?