How do you mend a fractured relationship with the school?

[RevoltInParadise]

There has been words from both sides last year.

But I tried to offer an olive branch by praising the teachers efforts so far. In writing! On the advice if people here I try to keep everything in writing. My two letters this month have gone unanswered.

Well until today when I got s letter from the head saying basically its all my fault.

Wtf do I do? There are no other schools with places, I have checked. :(

They don't seem to get I just want the best for my son.

could the governors help to act as mediators here? they helped when I had 'issues' with school. I would try to write to Chair of Govs because obviously this situation is in nobody's interest.

Sorry you are in this situation, it is awful and very upsetting.

letter from the head saying basically its all my fault

This is probably one of the very few situations when parent partnership can be helpful. "To help us rebuild the relationship, I'm struggling with their perceptions of our family". PP are well known for being in bed with the LA, but sometimes that means they can have a quiet word in the ear of the right people. And if that doesn't change the head's thinking, they might be able to help you negotiate a managed move to another school.