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This is my child and 'that's so gay'

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inappropriatelyemployed · 18/11/2013 21:20

Great to see MNHQ involved in both campaigns (Stonewall campaign here but I am not sure why they can't be linked in terms of using offensive language.

There are many heated debates on the use of disablist language here, yet this has not been part of the 'This is my child' campaign - why?

The Stonewall release even says:

"It's often having that chat with the student and explaining to them that it shouldn't be used and equating it with words of race or language of disability that they might use that they know is unacceptable."

Yet, do people know that disablist language is unacceptable? I really think they don't and that the use of disablist language on tv and amongst mainstream figures is at least as prevalent and apparently 'acceptable' as homophobic language (if not more so). It seems de rigeur for some so-called 'comedians'.

Why the difference in approach? Is it because disabled children is all about 'children in need' and cuddly, pitiable disabled kiddies who need to be understood?

We don't need to persuade anyone of our children's rights to be heard and to live free of disablist language and discrimination.

We need to demand their rights.

Don't get me wrong: no form of discrimination is more or less acceptable than the other but why the difference in approach?

No one is saying 'this is my gay son' with lots of cuddly photos and pleas for acceptance are they? And their is a reason for that.

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inappropriatelyemployed · 20/11/2013 20:58

I should add as well that many of us do try and campaign on these issues ourselves but, guess what, it is very difficult to find anyone interested in listening to people like us. The people actually living this or to listen to the voices of our children or young people.

MN has no such problem getting media attention though so we had welcomed action on this.

As for charities, Nye Bevan got the doctors onside with the NHS in 1945 because he said 'he stuffed their mouths with gold'. An interesting comparison to those putting Government reforms into practice with little thought to their actual intention.

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