Background: My daughter is 6, year 2, and a late July baby. She is currently on reading level 5 and manages this well. I am well aware that she isn't at the top of her class but I, and previous teachers, have put this down in part to her being summer born and she is on a par with other summer borns in her class. We had parents evening about 4 weeks ago, and the teacher said that there were a number of children who needed extra support but she didn't seem overly worried and didn't mention SEN or IEP's. Positive comments are always written in her book share book each week.
On Monday this week at pick up, her teacher gestured to me to come into the classroom and handed me two IEP's, with 'Moderate Learning Difficulty' in the header. As she handed it to me she told me that it was "nothing to worry about" and my daughter wasn't the only child getting one, and asked me to sign and return. (I know of at least 2 other children who received one, and there could be more). I took it home and discussed it with my husband and both of us felt unhappy with the way it was delivered to us, (ie, not in a meeting or at parents evening), and the implication that she has a 'Moderate Learning Difficulty' with no specific detail as to what that means for her, (as it seems to be a very broad term which is applicable to children with all sorts of special educational needs).
I welcome extra help if she needs more support with her learning, but I am uncomfortable with her being 'labelled' in this way, (as far as I know they haven't brought in any external agencies to make these assessments).
We have a meeting on Tuesday morning and I want to address this is in a moderate and sensible manner and wondered if any one had experience of a similar IPE scenario or an implication that their child had 'Moderate Learning Difficulties', when they didn't agree? The fact that the teacher told me that 'she isn't the only one' actually worried me more as I am concerned it masks failings in the way they are teaching?
Am I correct in thinking that if a child is considered SEN then the school don't have to include their attainment marks in the schools SATS results? (This is an outstanding school in the leafy suburbs of Surrey).
This is my youngest daughter, oldest in 10, and I have never had any issues like this previously. Many thanks in advance.