Here is a letter.
Thoughts welcome
Dear Mrs Headteacher
Further to our conversation last night:
Mr Classteacher expressed concern that YD would find difficulty making the expected 2 sublevels of progress this year because of “a poor work ethic”.
When I asked what he thought the reason for YD having a poor work ethic might be, he said “because he has been allowed to”
As you know YD has a diagnosis of Aspergers Syndrome and has high anxiety about school focussed around writing and social difficulties.
The OT assessment (of which you have a copy) showed that YD’s writing speed was only just over the 4th centile, and recommended that tasks involving writing be shortened or supported where possible e.g. by being presented as a cloze exercise; and that he should learn to touch type and use a keyboard for longer writing tasks.
The IEP agreed with school states that YD should use a computer for typing longer pieces of work, and should get time to practise touch typing.
It was several weeks into term before YD was given any time to practice touch typing. We have continued to practice at home, and YD is now starting to approach 30 words per minute with an accuracy of 80-90%, but needs to continue to get time to practice regularly at school, as well as at home, to establish and automate this skill so that he can dual-task and think about work at the same time as typing.
9 weeks into term, YD has not been given any chance to do writing tasks on the computer – and has been expected to write out the learning objectives by hand at the start of each piece of work in his exercise books.
YD has found the end of year 5 and the transition to year 6 extremely difficult. He has had very high anxiety levels resulting in several meltdowns, where unable to tolerate his feelings he has repeatedly said that he wants to die, and is going to kill himself. On four occasions we have had to prevent him trying to take action on this by going to get a knife.
We had hoped that as the term progressed, he would become less anxious, and less reluctant to attend school. This has not happened. He says every day that he hates school and doesn’t want to go to school.
I accept that Mr. Classteacher is trying to push YD to do more writing with the best of intentions and to try to enable him to make progress across the curriculum. We too want YD to succeed and make progress. However we do not think that failing to implement strategies agreed in his IEP will help with this. We hope that if his extreme anxiety about writing and work generally is reduced by implementing the IEP, YD will be happier and make better academic progress.
Yours Sincerely
Mr and Mrs Donki