I am making snail-like progress with my request for SA due to lots of other stuff with DS2 and uni struggles. Is it at this stage I should be getting independent reports to support my request for SA for DD who has ASD and selective mutism and heaps of anxiety? DD was assessed by the LA EP just over 6 months ago - there isn't a rule that requires reports to be less than 6 months old, is there? Do I 'strengthen' my case now, or do I wait to see if SA is refused, and then get independent reports before going to tribunal for refusal to assess?
And another question - if DD gets a statement does it mean that the 'normal rules' for secondary schoool admission don't apply? I may want the local school for DD, which as it stands she would get as a sibling. A mum I know with a Y6 child with a statement has found out that her DS has got the school they wanted, but she says the fact that he has a sibling there was irrelevant - and she said that the school (an academy) apparently didn't want her DS but were 'forced' to take him by the LA.
TIA