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Spent ages compiling evidence for statement....

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Dingle · 06/07/2006 12:03

...and now I am frightened I have done it right!!!! I t needs to be back to the LEA next Wednesday!!! Have I put in too much info....am I statementing her out of mainstream ed? Have I done enought to get her a statement in Mainstream?

With the constant fight for any therapy, is mainstream the right route now? I have thought so all along but now I am having my doubts?

Help, advice really appreciated!
Someone kick me into shape please!!!

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nailpolish · 06/07/2006 12:14

hi Dingle

just wanted to simply say i hope everything works out fine for you

Dingle · 06/07/2006 12:23

Thanks NP!! I guess at some stage I'll just have to bite the bullet and put it in the post! Then I can get on with looking at some fluffy feathers and spangles for you hair fascinator!! That will help take my mind of the rotten statementing battle.

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sphil · 06/07/2006 17:38

Dingle - I am two days behind you in the process and could have written your post myself!

Alan · 06/07/2006 17:42

Dingle, I dont know whether we have ever chatted about this off the board but the reason I decided on special school in the end was because I didnt feel dd got enough therapeutic input in mainstream. Everything was always a major battle. I was so pissed off with the lack of services here compared to where I moved from.

All you have to remember is you are doing what YOU feel is instinctively right as Amelias Mother. If you feel the mainstream will cope and that she will get the right therapy and be able to get something out of mainstream, then you go for it. We carry alot of guilt but we dont know until we try do we? Nothing is set in stone, it is just very frustrating and alot of hard work

Dingle · 07/07/2006 09:26

It's good to know these are probably the emotions everyone goes through at this time then sphil!

I suppose the anxiety about this has been building up slowly for years, knowing you have yet another huge battle to fight. I kept putting it off and trusting the school when they said they were going to apply, but can't have this hanging over us for any longer.

At this moment I do think mainstream is right for her, I just need to prepare myself for the constant battles for therapy. We pay privately for SALT, which I will more than likely continue with, but we can't afford sessions weekly like they advise. Recently we have only been seeing them ever few months to check on progress and change targets- the regular SALT sessions are done throughout the day at home and in the little time Amelia is with her LSA. (The LSA did a Symbol course earlier on in the year and they feel confident that they can meet Amelia's needs!!!)

As for OT, one of the top Therapists at the CDC said to a group of Mums that she could see why they felt their children with DS needed any OT!!!!

It's gonna be a long time coming, but I will get there. I am considering looking into some training myself, perhaps become some sort of asssistant....not sure which field to persue yet.
I 've thought of Signalong, Symbol (SALT) or OT! But prehaps these just won't be realistic for me to achieve!

At least I would have an better knowledge and be able to give Amelia her therapy myself!!!

Right. Moan over, cuppa tea in hand, let's get back to the drawing board and check this supporting evidence again!!

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Alan · 07/07/2006 09:34

Dingle, i dont know if I have ever mentioned that my friend is an OT (and reflexologist!) and she has two children with SN. i am sure if you are depserate she would help (its Fio btw!!!)

Dingle · 07/07/2006 09:52

Hi Fio, sorry I didn't recognise you!!

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Davros · 07/07/2006 18:40

I wondered who this nosey Alan geezer was
Dingle, the main thing is you need to be convincing, and that can be just the problem! You spend so much time and input into making a good case you start to question it iyswim. I'm sure you've done a good job, it gets to a point when you have to leave it alone and get it in (by Recorded Delivery naturally!).

Dingle · 08/07/2006 10:46

Well, it's gone in the post today....now for the wait!!!!!

It was such a relief to seal the envelope! It was followed by a lovely chinese take away, a bottle of wine......

then I fell asleep on the settee!!!LOL!!

How are you doing sphil?

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