Sad that children are told to stay away from my child

[Catchhimatwhat]

ASD ADHD DD told me today that her best friend's mum has told him to stay away from her because she is too much trouble. She thinks his mum said something to school too.

I feel sad.

I know his mum will ask for them to be split up when they go up to secondary school.

It's so difficult for her to make friends in the first place.

She can't keep quiet and she can't keep still. I know that another mum probably wouldn't want her sat next to their child all the time.

I know people have said things before, but these two together, they genuinely seem to get on really well, it's such a shame.

DD isn't a bad girl. But she is disruptive. I can't change that. She can't change that.

Things are always going to be so hard for her. :(

Disability discrimination is alive and well, sadly. I feel for you and your dd, I really do.

Feel for you as been there and it hurts x

Most of the time it's the adults that cause grief rather than the children themselves.

how about the school setting up a whole class rotation?

School did this in DS class to help him mix and for socialising but also the children got a break invade he was having an anxious week. It was done throughout the whole class though so no one was officially pointed out. DS did not move from his seat though as that would have chucked a spanner in his routine x

I was going to ask for an extended parents evening meeting anyway for a couple of things that have come up this year.
I'll mention it and see what they say.

I needed somewhere to let it out.
Thank you for understanding.