education welfare will i risk a problem here ?

[thriftychic]

having a lot of issues with school at the moment ,started a thread the other day .
basically they want to put ds2 in an internal exclusion in their isolation / behaviour room and he wont / cant go to it .
he has asd. he did one day and wont do any more . i am not trying to force him to go anymore its causing alot of stress.
school wont budge on it so we are now stuck at home . i have asked for a meeting . they have said they will send his work home for now .
ds2 is going downhill with it all , he is saying that he isnt going but hes saying hes a psycopath for messing everything up for me and other horrible things about himself. its not helping that hes getting crazy with staying in the house so i want to get him out tomorrow.
but, what happens if we get stopped ? will i be in trouble then for him not being in school ?

a timeline is an excellent idea

It's really hard to think straight when it's about our children I think because it affects us so emotionally. I know I've had times when I couldn't speak in meetings etc and I am always kicking myself after the event for not getting my point across as well as I've wanted to.

Have you spoken to parent partnership? They can be hit and miss but they might be able to suggest something depending on their experience of ASD.

ds did really well to go into school to discuss this the other day and school should have acknowledged that. His anxiety levels are probably sky high. School aren't listening to him at all.

Have you said whether ds has a statement?

some recommendations here about illegal exclusion which you could quote to the school

NAS advice here