My first post on mumsnet, been reading a lot though over the last few weeks, mainly on this board. Great source of info for worried parents googling 
My youngest has a rare condition that causes episodic ataxia and vision problems amongst other things. He is 3 and attends a nursery school who have local authority funding for one-to-one care for him there.
Have considered applying for DLA many times over the years (DS has had the condition since birth) but until recently have never really had any extra costs associated with it so didn't feel the need. More and more now we seem to be faced with various expenses for him, with more likely in the future, so decided to apply.
The first application went in at the beginning of September. The decision to decline it was made within two working days. Not eligible. I must admit I was quite shocked as from the perspective of all who know him, there is no question that he requires more care than another child his age. I must have flunked the form writing.
Reconsideration requested, and a letter sent (with help from a friend professionally experienced) detailing why. They have had it for nearly 3 weeks now, after the super quick rejection last time I am taking no news as good news- hopefully they are at least looking at it properly. If/when we are declined we will appeal.
My husband had a DWP brown envelope in the post today... my heart was in my mouth as I picked it up and flipped it over to see it wasn't addressed to me. It's a horrible feeling waiting, I'm not even sure why. I guess when you are fighting for your child it is hard not to take it all incredibly personally?
So yeah, just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat, waiting for a DLA decision?