Not sure how to word this so apologies for the waffle !
Ds has just gone in to yr5 ....his levels are between 2c and 2a....but he is "bright" enough to know it .
After many years of severe anxiety/panic attacks and school refusal year 4 was getting better as he had 2 TA'S that helped him cope.
He was not assigned these TA'S but was placed on the tables where the statemented children were and worked with them in small groups and had SALT( on his IEP) with another child and other child's TA.
Ed Physc did a quick 1/2 visit and noticed his anxiety in class...but said it is because he is sad (confused) which is inhibiting his learning.
Still undergoing Aspergers dx and dyslexia/dyspraxia...he get's taken out 1x week for 40 min lit support and then we do the work every evening at home.
One month in and he has gone backwards again.....Major panic/meltdown this morning .I could actually "see" his heart beating through his jumper telling me he was going to be sick....yes I took him home but please that is not what my thread is about.
Anyhow we have had a good chat ...and he said he needs extra help at school...and no one is giving it to him....and he does not know what to do and keeps getting "threatened" that he will miss play if he does not do the work right ......I did ask if it was a class threat sort of thing ...but he said no Mr x said my name.
His confidence was just starting to emerge and now it has gone again....
So ...this is my long winded way of ...well not sure really...he wants to meet with SENCO with me and HE says what he wants on his IEP ?
Does any of this make sense....
Sorry and thank you for reading if you have!