Will try and keep brief
Son I suspect has aspergers , school at first said he had issues with social skills but improved , he was assessed before starting school nursery at 3 and scored points but not enough for diagnosis, he is back on waiting list but I was told 10 months wait. However we have had a lot of issues with him trying to escape out of windows so speech therapist referred me to early health team as his behaviour out of control.
Early health team have been told his assessment has been pushed forward to October and to ask school if they know the date, school senco didn't know anything about it and said they would tell me if they knew anything, she said this as I have wrote a letter of complaint before about not being informed.
Anyway early health team spoke to senco and seen co said she had phoned up the team who are doing the assessments and it is going ahead in oct. She also informed early health he had been seen by ed psyc last year but no issues raised. I wasn't aware he had been seen by ed psych last year as school say nothing wrong with my son and I'm not that happy that she has phoned the autism team without asking me to find out when he is being assessed.
She also hasn't informed me that the assessment is going ahead earlier despite her saying she would keep me informed and I only know through early health team
Am I right to be annoyed she is phoning agencies without my consent and then not even updating me.