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Lesley1311 · 22/09/2013 08:30

My little girl who lives with us under a special guardianship order, is six years old and has just gone into year two at her small village primary school. Last week we were asked if we would like the school to apply for an SEN for her as she was beginning to fall behind in some aspects of her learning, they said she had reached level P8 which,I understand is just below accessing the curriculum.
My little girll's learning difficulties have been diagnosed as mild to moderate by our local paediatric health team. She has an age appropriate reading age, her difficulties are in how she communicates with others - this can sometimes and only sometimes be a little disconnected, and how she accesses information that us given to her. She is a confident, self-assured and happy little girl. She has not been diagnosed with any condition, although her birth mother took drugs and did not have any ante-natal care and she also tried to starve herself during her pregnancy.
All my instincts tell me that I shouldn't accept the offer of an SEN, that in future her progress will be data led and not led by the child herself. When attending the school for a consultation evening at the end of July, we were told she was far too clever for a statement, but in a few weeks, something has changed and I must admit to feeling very confused.
I would be grateful for any input that could lessen my feeling of confusion.

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NynaevesSister · 23/09/2013 10:26

P8 is quite far below and there's a lot of catching up for her to do this year. It is a strong indication that she needs support not that she will always need support. Now is the time to start looking at what she needs and this is what the school want to do. Your school sounds supportive, not all are. I would grab everything they can offer you. We did and while some of it won't be relevant or what your child needs none of it is going to harm her development.

Lesley1311 · 23/09/2013 21:32

Thank you for responding and I understand and appreciate your view. My concern is how the view of her school has radically changed in a matter of a few weeks. I don't want to make her dependant on support; she is very independent and very determined to do things by herself. Having worked as a teaching assistant with children with special needs Ihave witnessed how quickly children become dependent on full- time help.
Obviously I don't want her to be disadvantaged at school but I don't want her to be wrapped in cotton wool either. We have made an appointment to see the SENCO and the TA who spends one to one time with her. I think I need to ask some questions about how the decision to recommend her for a statement was made.

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NynaevesSister · 24/09/2013 10:58

That was my biggest concern too and I go over the strategies they have in place at each SENCO meeting.

Ask specifics about the training the TA has had. Ours have worked on 'fail' strategies. Constructive ways the child is given tasks that they will fail at initially so they can learn how to ask for help and learn how to persevere till they get it right.

There are a lot of things the support can give your child including how to work independently.

Anyway that's what I am hoping we will achieve this year.

StarlightMcKenzie · 26/09/2013 21:30

You will get lots more responses if you post your question

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs

As not many people visit this part of the board but loads visit the other.

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