Reposting here also posted in SN education.
DD got her statement back in July. Before it was issued it asked us to name the secondary school we want her to go to. Which we did - special ASD school. It was the same school that the LEA recommended for her too, so figured they're on the same page as us there. She's currently in year 6 in a mainstream primary.
The statement currently names her primary school. I was told that the statement would be reviewed early in the autumn term and would then name the special school we want her to go to.
I had a phone call from the SENCO at her primary school today asking about our secondary school choice and then she said that after speaking to the contact who issues statements at the LEA that the review will take place in the Spring term but, there is no guarantee that dd will actually get in to the chosen special school and a decision will be made in the summer term next year. And that I should still apply online in the mainstream admissions process making 3 choices in case she doesn't get in.
Yet when I registered on the council website after dd came home with a letter and unique reference number to apply online, the website says that if your child has a statement then you don't apply through the mainstream admissions process, and to contact the special educational needs department.
I'm totally confused now. I thought that with the LEA stating that she should go to the special school in the proposed statement and then us saying we also thought she should go there, pretty much guaranteed her a place.
I spoke to PP briefly today and although they're normally very helpful he just left me feeling more confused. Told me to speak to X who issued the statement, so I did, he mentioned I could apply for a mainstream school through the normal admissions process "if I wanted too also". Yet PP said I don't apply through the main admissions. Then I read this which says I "you will be sent a list of mainstream, special and approved independent schools by your local authority with a letter telling you of your right to state a preference for a state maintained school and the deadline for this." Also Nerfmother replied to one of my other threads (thanks btw) and she said that you can't apply through mainstream admissions if you have a statement.
I need help. 
I'm seriously considering homeschooling her from next September if she doesn't get in to the special school as I think she will just completely get lost in a mainstream secondary. Even if they do have a special ASD unit, their reputations are pretty bad, awful in fact and I really don't want her going there.