Having a TA but subtle?

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My 4 year old DS has now got a statement with a 1:1
Has anyone any experiences to share about whether this makes a child stand out?
There are other TAs in class and it is a big class so in some ways it won't
But she is due to meet us in the playground at drop off every morning and I think this will draw attention to DS
(I think he would cope with running in on his own after a couple of weeks)

Am I worrying over nothing?

I should imagine having no TA and not coping would draw more attention to him.

Im sure the TA would be happy to be flexible after a couple of weeks, if you think he could he cope with going in on his own or maybe just back off a bit and be present for if he doesn't cope.

Stand out to who? The other parents or the children?

I imagine at age 4 the TA will most likely be helping with other children who find separating from their parents hard too tbh.

Not so much a problem at this age but it can be very tricky as the child gets older (junior school age) especially if they are self-aware.

However, alot depends on the TA.

I used to worry about this. I don't at all now. DD2 is oblivious and I couldn't give a rat's arse what anyone else thinks.

Thanks everyone, that's really helpful. I was just logged on to post this question then was very surprised to find I had already done so first thing this morning, my memory must be going!
I'll chat about it with them tomorrow about how best to do things & try and not care so much about what others think. I hadn't thought about the future as they become more self-aware so thank you for pointing that out. Really appreciate all the replies.

My DD is only just turned 5. She's oblivious at the moment as are her classmates. Their parents probably aren't. I can't worry about them.

The children in her class (year 1) are totally accepting of my DD, despite her having severe language delay/disorder and a probable ASD diagnosis.
There will be a time (I hope) where she either fits in or is accepted and accepts who she is but my priority for now is that she has a brilliant 1:1 support. If it's not subtle help to others then fair enough.

But I totally "get" how you feel.