after battling sorting out the boys who are both statemented and happy in special schools I somehow missed what was going on with my daughter.
she is 10 in year 5 - her reading age is about age 7 and she is struggling do learn her 3 x times - not sure what level she should be on or what an average 10 year old would be.
over the years - we have moved schools a bit due to dh job - schools have raised concerns but as she is a passive well behaved girl she has basically gone under the radar and been 'ignored'. In march this year she had a bot of a breakdown over her school and asked to change schools. I spoke to her then class teacher who admitted she forgot my daughter was in the class. the school had screened her for dyslexia and it had come out positive s I asked what help school were giving her wihich was none really.
new school immeadiately raised concerns and queried the levels the previous school had said she was at. they felt she was only level 1 in reading etc. school then put in extra 1:1 for her and said would see how this extra support would go and see how her levels went. if no increase then we woul dmeet again in sept and decide what to do next likely they would then call an EP into assess her and give her an IEP.
I have asked for the meeting today to discuss the way forward and have no idea what to say /do. teacher at last meeting when I asked whether she may need a statement mad eit clear that she wouldn't get one. I asked about getting her seen privately to be dx and the teacher assured me no need to do it and school will sort it out. part of me today wants to just say enough is enough and I want to get her seen privately asap.
years have now passed where she has just been left to flounder - doing her homework last night was absolutely painful = she is struggling so much, she struggles with her memory etc and she is becoming aware that she is behind academically - the school she is at now is very small , only 22 in the whole school so she is in a class of 10 with a teacher and TA so nowhere for her to hide now.
I just don't want her to be fobbed off any more. its also complicate dthat we are in an out of county school so not sure which EP they will call in and the school saying she wont get a statement is under their LA criteria whereas the LA we live in are actually pretty good at statementing.
just want to make sure I get this right for her now as year 6 and sats are fast approaching. also being in such a small school makes her the eldest girl now in the school.