I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice or if anyone has been through the same?
I have posted a few times about my dd (now 17m) she has developmental delays (can't roll, crawl, walk or move in any way) and white matter brain damage.
we found out last week that we are expecting dc2 in April (not planned but very much wanted) and I have got myself in a state paranoid that this baby is going to have brain damage too. no one knows why dd has brain damage or what caused it which I think is making me worse as I don't have any certainties. I am not very good at expressing my opinions when speaking to the consultations plus I don't know what to ask and when. the HV came to see dd today and I told her about the baby she then said I can change hospitals if I wish which made me think she knows something I don't. I don't blame anyone for dds SN at all and have no problem going to the same hospital but why would she say this?! I am now a paranoid over thinking hormonal mess and not sure what I'm even asking now
has anyone had roughly the same with their first and gone on to have a healthy second? dh says I should just let it go and what will be will be but I just want to hit him for it!
sorry for the long post/rant x