A virtual scream

[blueeyedmonster]

I want to be able to interact with my toddler, have a nice cuppa in the morning, have a nice chat with my son and have my kids play nicely. We've been up for approx 1.5 hours and he's upset his sister 4 times I've wrapped him in his blanket 3 times and he's been physically and verbally aggressive. I feel worn out and spent. I'll be ok, he over it like normal, I have to but I need to have a whinge sometimes. Writing it down is good.

Whinge away, can you work out why he's being a handful this time?
What the trigger is?
If not, then Never too early for a virtual glass.

Thanks. Yes I'm looking into body Sox. Hoping that I can get some help to get one if/when we get a DX.

I'm going to get shit mum of the year today, he's been constant and I've just held his arms and yelled at him that I've had it with him This is not me at all. I'm so upset with myself. How could I do that.

He has a birthday party this afternoon. I think this is the root of it. We should also be on our way to a friends house to give their ds a birthday present too.

Thank you we had a lovely time at our friends house. Nice and calm. As soon as we got home he started again. Refusing to come with me tog et his sister to sleep but not wanting to stay with his dad. Screaming and crying because I made him stay with his dad. I took a few big deep breaths while I was out and reminded myself it was because he was anxious/excited. Came back and managed to calm him. 35 mins to go and he should be calm after..........I hope so anyway!

I have lost it this morning too. Ds was going off on one over wanting to buy two degus as pets- just totally out of the blue. I carefully explained why he couldn't have them and if course he got more and more angry, then he switched to wanting some lego again and screaming and shouting at me. I'd be able to deal with the isolated incident it's just doing it 3/4/5 times a day. every single day that just uses up every last bit of energy

Sorry you've been having a hard time too pop I hope the rest of your day got better

It did thanks. Dh took dd out for the day and ds is fine (ish) with one to one attention. He only kicked off and needed restraining on a few occasions and was frequently happy in between times.
Hope you've had some calmer times too.

That's good to hear yes we did a little. He was fab at the party apart from when he'd finished his food and legged it back to the play area but that's cool, gave me some exercise running to retrieve him ha. Really good all in all. Bit iffy after but just have been one of those days. Here's hoping for a better day tomorrow.

Hope springs eternal! :)

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