No, I apologise for my bluntness. I have been dragged along on some wild rides with drip feeding, and frankly can be a bit suspicious...
That sounds like a very traumatic birth - I am sure it still haunts you.
MRI at that young can be unreliable - for sure. If he were to have another one now, you might have a totally different image, either pristine, or wide damage that he seems to have managed to overcome. Interestingly enough... you mention he had horrendous reflux... that can be autonomic, too.
If it is autonomic (at least in our case) Calpol doesn't generally help - that is often the easiest way to tell if Bee is having an autonomic fever or if there is another source. However, I know of other families that it does help for.
With regard to the CP, the longer he goes without showing overt signs (ataxia, spasticity) the better chance he has to have avoided it, but it is important to remember that he could have some very subtle damage that is affecting temperature regulation or other autonomic functions without having CP. By its definition, CP is a movement disorder, so if it isn't affecting motor function, it isn't defined as CP.
From a heat standpoint, there isn't anything we can do from a "medical" perspective. As she gets older, Bee's heat/cold tolerance is getting worse, so we are very mindful of the temperature/humidity outside. She has her cooling vest for the summer, and extra layers (including a wheelchair blanket) in the winter. Like BBB, we don't use the thermometer much, we check more by touch. I generally check with the back of my wrist against her back - her peripheral circulation is poor, so hands and feet are cold (in fact, for Bee, warm hands are almost always a good hint that she will be hospitalised soon - as they only happen when she is developing a blood infection).
Prevention and limiting heat exposure (and making sure that his carers are on the same page) is the key...