LOL @ starlight, I might try that one.
however the point the school are missing or just being difficult as they are bored is the school (well governor) have said "it is not a detention" therefore when I say no he is not allowed to stay behind after school then why do I then have to get into this debate/dialogue with them every other month...if it is not a detention, then you have no right to keep him after school...END OF
They don't actually say it is a detention anymore (after I threaten them with a DDA last year) , so now they say it is "support" this is what happens;
ME: ok so I reject your "support" after school..the support YOUR Governor said was an "offer"
HEAD: err, no you cant do that,
ME: why as there is nowt in school policy that actually states you can do this for the reasons you state and I am excising my basic parental and human right of being able to pick and choose what I choose to accept or reject for my son
HEAD: hmmm..No, cant do that...its what we do...
ME: so if DS doesn't show up?
HEAD: Errr, we then issue a detention for failure to attend
ME: so it is compulsory which then equates a detention..
HEAD: errm, I am not going to get into that, its just what we do...
this is basically what i go through every other month
they are constantly contradicting themselves its ass if they don't actually read their own policy. I have to chase the barrister tomorrow, I was trying to avoid shelling out £140 p/h that I am using out of DS saved DLA money but I need some sound, solid legal advice on this one and Legal Aid lot are having none of this..bloody bas**rds, the lot of em (school and LA)