DS2 (7 yrs) has statement due to behaviour at mainstream school. DS1 (13 yrs) has ADHD & ODD and ds2 is copying his older brothers home behaviours in school. Have recently started a CAF to get help with ds1, as despite numerous requests to SC, I'm basicaly told theres nothing they can do each time. ds2 school put him on 2 hr timetable 18 months ago which I had to seek legal advice to get him back in full time.
So now they're trying to force a move to 'special' school for ds2. He has no problems in any other situation other than school, i use 1,2,3 magic strategy at home to good effect, no ADHD or other issues. EP states the behaviours his brother displays are impacting, but school want to send him to a school were these behaviours are apparent in most of the students and think that this will help??
ds1 attended the school for 2.5 years and I regularly attended parents groups, etc so have had lots of experience as to events there. Advice needed please