The only good thing so far is that my son is having his needs reassessed and a new core assessment done by social services as they cannot now deny his level,of needs due to the placement he is now in. The social worker ran for cover during the tribunal. She is part of the inclusion team so sat and listen whilst the LA no doubt slagged me off. Told her how disappointed in her I was as it was my son she had let down not me. He was out of school for months and at no point did she check in him. I told her anything could have happened to him and they had a duty of care to make sure he was okay, she just fobbed me off saying that she knew he would be fine as they had no concerns about us as parents. Shame that the LA mid tribunal tried to mud sling - it just came across as them being desperate. Again I just sat there and said nothing, didn't rise to it and that winds them up even more.
Thinking about it we have no services here at all. They are now going to try and open a free school in 2015 so that could be an interesting ride as both my sons could be at risk of the LA trying to force the move into the new school on use as both boys will be I transition periods so I reckon I've got a year of calm ahead of me before the battle armour comes out yet again. My plan now is to go quiet, go under the radar. My silence will kill them as they will be wondering what I'm up to.
Just to highlight how dire our parent partnership was, once we went to tribunal they would not help us. Post tribunal she contacted me and said as she had never seen a working document could she see mine, plus could she see my independent reports and tribunal decision. Needless to say I never sent them. My county is so small that if a parent needs help, they will know how to find me themselves and I wouldn't be surprised if parent partnership sends them my way.