Ds2 is seriously needle phobic as well bigblue. Caused by an incompetent registrar when he was seriously ill in hospital at the age of 4.
We have since discovered that, due to his joint hypermobility syndrome, he doesn't respond to local anaesthetic, so the emla cream they were putting on him was useless as well, making it all so much worse.
He hasn't had his pre-school boosters or second MMR as a result. I have honestly never seen a child as out of control-terrified as he was of needles, it was so distressing for him and everyone around him.
His first MMR was delayed by me, so that delayed his boosters, then he had the pneumonia and was very weak and debilitated for a long time afterwards. In fact he seriously regressed, his personality changed and he lost a lot of skills and learning and had to start again with learning letters and numbers etc in year 1, despite being really good at them prior to the pneumonia.
I have considered booking him in for it a couple of times since, but worry about his needle phobia. I do think I might have to have his booster done soon though, if the current outbreak spreads much further.
I have read a bit about how necessary boosters are for immunity and and am none the wiser, as everything I read seems to contradict something else.
If it wasn't for the needle phobia, I would really prefer to do titre testing, rather than keep on blindly injecting boosters, but that might end up meaning 2 injections rather than one if his levels are low.
I can honestly say it's one of the things about parenting I have wrestled the most with and I'm still not sure I've done the right thing by any of them.
To top it all off, I am now having terrible guilts about not getting them done sooner, both from the viewpoint of protecting my own dcs and the herd immunity thing, as parents of immune compromised and other children who can't have immunisations for other reasons in Swansea and the surrounding areas must be really scared for their dcs at the moment. 