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frizzcat · 20/03/2013 09:56

It's nothing in particular just the usual little things that sets ds apart. Plus I'm really tired, plus tired of running after dd 2 who thinks everytime I say " come on this way" it's an invitation to play chase.
And I wish ds ASD would just piss off and leave my little fella be.
Come join the angry thread and get it out of your system - wish there was a scary head emoction

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ouryve · 20/03/2013 19:14

I would have joined in, but the power's been off all day. I ended up having to hug DS1 very hard when it over ran by half an hour. I was angry for him.

He was lovely and warm, mind. And I can't remember the last time he let me hug him like that. A proper snuggly, squeezy hug, as opposed to a bouncy mass of pointy bits and tongues.

PolterGoose · 20/03/2013 19:16

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Reecieroo · 20/03/2013 19:16

That's really bad polter I'd be bloody fuming, they deffo belong in the bastard category will leave subsection to op, hugs for u and ds and his very sweet sounding friend :)

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ouryve · 20/03/2013 19:24

If you're still grinding, it's Northern Power Grid that needs chucking in for me.

Never mind DS1 being so upset that he let me hug him, I've only just got feeling back in my hands that isn't reynaud-esque pain.

ouryve · 20/03/2013 19:29

The power being off is truly in the spirit of the thread. DS1 has decreed that power cuts Should Never Happen Again.

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ouryve · 20/03/2013 19:40

No worries.

The house is warming up, we have bellies full of pizza and he's back to his usual self, asking me endless questions about the Jethro Tull CDs I got for Mothers' day.

frizzcat · 20/03/2013 19:56

Okay the spreadsheet is up lets go
Northern power grid added - subsection powerless bastard
Polters supply teacher - subsection RADA reject bastard (teaching to pay the bills). This also deserves a nomination for the bastard of the week.

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Reecieroo · 20/03/2013 19:58

That is really good, I know it's not really the same but my dd1 has a boy with ds in her class and at parents evening they told me she's above average for reading etc but the thing that made me proud the most was to hear how kind and caring she is towards him and how she is so keen to learn sign language every day so she communicate with him it's very, very sweet and his parents are also happy as he normally only communicates with boys and she had made him be friends with her.

That's a sad thing that parents avoid ds, I find it hard with ds that its so hard to hold my head up when people can't 'see' his additional needs, he is at v start of dx for adhd/as, so lovely to hear of the special bonds your ds has with his friend and just as important u with his mum.

Anyway I'm making this thread all warm and fluffy........hv is still a bastard and also Thomas the bloody tank engine is a blue annoying noisy bastard!!!! (Just for good measure in keeping with the thread!)

OhYeaBaby · 20/03/2013 20:23

Dunno who to be cross with. Had convo with senco of school ds2 is going to last night (older ds1 is there and had parents evening last night) - and she was in her office - so I swooped. Ok, so I caught unawares, but lets say I "remain unconvinced. This follows 'no' to SA from LEA two weeks ago-I've now finally had a copy of the form the school put in - while it isn't incorrect, they didn't bend over backwards to paint a picture of what ds2 is like - they didn't bother to fill in the whole form. thanks fudgers.

frizzcat · 20/03/2013 20:24

Grin Ree - that's just reminded me of the film Stardust when Robert De Niro is pretending to a tough pirate in front of the crew - when really he likes dresses and all things fluffy

Ahem - sorry, now where's that bastard spreadsheet

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frizzcat · 20/03/2013 20:29

And another entry on the useless bastard field (by far the most popular) - ohyea SENCO makes her debut.

Always best to catch them on the hop then they don't have time to conjure up lies

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LimboLil · 20/03/2013 20:47

Ooh frizz I got another, disappearing friends and family. I would like to place these under Predictable Bastards.

frizzcat · 20/03/2013 21:20

Predictable bastards added - who needed them anyway

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LimboLil · 20/03/2013 21:46

We were too good for them

Reecieroo · 20/03/2013 22:00

Lol frizz I am warm and fluffy really?! .......until bastards in all shapes and forms come an rain on my parade or as dh puts it pisses on my chips!!! Such a charmer my dh why did I marry him again?! :/ x

coff33pot · 20/03/2013 23:00

Can I add 4 wheel drivers with no glasses Angry

2 weeks ago as some know I was hit from behind and sent over curb into lamp post. Front and back damage, severed nerve damage, Eldest DD neck and back damage torn muscle/tendon.

Got my brum brum back THIS weekend all fixed and shiny......

Goes to take middle DD for ID photos to be done for trip and low and behold another muppet crashes into be from behind at a roundabout! DS now got neck damage, middle dd ripped her tendons in legs/ankle due to sitting legs crossed.

Only delight in this second episode was opening the back door and letting a very scared, hurt and angry DS say JUST what he wanted to say for once Grin

MummytoMog · 20/03/2013 23:27

Can I add the other parents at our childminder? Normal CM in hospital, she and DD get along very well. Cover CM was in. She doesn't get DD at all, prefers DS (who is anyone's for a cuddle) and thinks that there's something very wrong with DD (told me she thinks she has ADHD). If I'd known she was in, DD would not have gone. Anyway. Went to pick up children, damn pushchair was up in the hallinstead of folded up as I have repeatedly asked them to keep it to avoid this very problem, so DD saw me and climbed into it and had to be taken out again, screaming, so I could get the damn pushchair outside. Except that the smug twatty parents of fecking ten year olds, who can talk and shit, were in the way of me getting out, not moving, but tutting away merrily at DD, who was by now on the floor kicking and screaming. I basically had to shove my way through them, then come back to grab DS, then come back again to manhandle flailing screaming kicking DD into the pushchair. Out of which she promptly flings herself onto the floor. More crying. More tutting. From the audience now standing in the doorway having a good old gawp. And the disapproving childminder. Obviously, because we could not stop and cuddle it out, DD screamed the entire way home. Luckily there were some super helpful people on the but who knew exactly what I should do and weren't shy about telling me.

Christ, I hope 123 Magic works.

frizzcat · 20/03/2013 23:30

Crash test dummy bastards

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frizzcat · 20/03/2013 23:33

Mogs mummy - gormless gawking bastards

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PolterGoose · 21/03/2013 07:22

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coff33pot · 21/03/2013 13:06

polter she said to him "you are ok arent you mate" and he yelled "NO! I am not and you need to watch where you are bloody well going you silly son of a biscuit!" Grin yes thank goodness he said biscuit lol

Biscuit is his new swear word as is jelly tots! the bit infront I guess he picked up somewhere along the line at school not here! lol but it was very aptly applied on this occasion!

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bochead · 21/03/2013 16:02

To the utter arse of a washing machine delivery man who refused to deliver my washing machine - KARMA is gonna allow you to feel my wrath some day.

20 minute convo when I ordered the machine (and paid extra for next day delivery btw!) to explain there are no lifts in my block. Was reassured it was a 2 man delivery & that they have a special trolley to assist with stairs blah de blah. The man that knocked on my door to tell me they woudn't do it wwas a smirking git, and the second was too bone idle to get out the van.

I currently have a nasty eyelid infection which is affecting my vision and an overflow of bed linen to get through. Luckily perhaps I can't see the outstanding housework. I'm not impressed.

Can't even go to another company till I get my refund from appliancesdirect as it'll take five working days to process. It's been one of those weeks.