what do i say to BF????

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here is the story, ds is 5 on 26 may, we are having LITTLE get together after school with my mom,dad,brother,DPs aunty and DPs 2 cousins.

Talked sunday morning to BF i was trying to say that on the sat or sun for them to come round and we will have a little party, but BF missunderstood me.
BF now thinks they are coming round to after school.

The thing is ds is autistic and so is BF 2 sons, as some of you know bf is way to soft on her 2 ds,i now have got visions of them opening up ds presents breacking his new toys (they breack all his toys)and ds has been through so much this year just want him to have a happy day and ds will get soooooooooooooooooooo peed off if they touch his presents.

i just dont know what to say to BF as she is really paranoid about people not wanting her kids around as they are so wild.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me some advice

bump

just pretend you're changing the plans, and could she come on the weekend instead

would she be upset if you just explained that she misunderstood you earlier and that you are just having a few family members round after school

and that you were going to have his friends round at the weekend, otherwise it would be too many in the house

Lol , I read BF as boyfriend, had to read the thread 4 times till I understood!!! lol