My son has been diagnosed with Dyslexia with high intelligence, and now attention deficit disorder inattentive type.
The doctors want to try ritalin, but I am concerned that the ADD is more a symptom of the frustration of the high intelligence combined with some reading issues, rather than strictly attention deficit disorder.
I am worried that if I start down the trial of medication, that if the ritalin does not work, we will be down the route of trying more different medications. On the other hand if it is attention deficit disorder, am I being cruel holding off on the offer of ritalin, in case it really does make a difference.
I am reluctant to give the medication but am not convinced by the doctors yet that they really understand my son's issues, especially when they said yesterday "well if you don't take the ritalin, then there is really nothing else we can do for him, so not sure why you are here"
Any experiences on how others have dealt with the ritalin/no ritalin dilemma, gratefully recieved.