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yesterday, dd1...

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silverfrog · 06/03/2013 12:50

told me she would be 9 soon (true-ish, her birthday is in the summer).

I had no idea she was able to plan ahead and 'see' the future in this way, despite me knowing that she knows the concept of time, and past/future etc.

we ran through the months of the year today - she could tell me whose birthday was in each month (and then went on to quiz me as to which birthday came first/second etc in the months with multiple birthdays) - that really blew me away.

it didn't sound like parrotting known facts, iyswim, really more like proper conversation about the future/coming year.

she then, in yesterday's conversation, went on to issue the following instructions:

she wants a chocolate cake for her birthday (they are allowed to choose their own cakes and designs for me to massacre attempt to make)
in the shape of a car - like her favourite toy car (red)
it has to have 4 eggs in the recipe (no idea why, except she likes ot crack eggs, and count the number going in, and 4 is not a number of eggs we have used recently!)

BUT, I am not to put her car inside - inside it has to be chocolate cake, only looking like her car on the outside.

it made me Grin. just a simple, everyday conversation with my girl - one that a couple of years a go (hell, even last year!) I never thought I would have.

she makes me very proud.

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SallyBear · 06/03/2013 12:53

Big smile across my face to read this Silver. I long for the day when I can have a conversation with DS4. Yesterday he KNEW it was his birthday. His excitement probably made my year tbh. So, yes I understand and share in your joy.

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lougle · 06/03/2013 13:13

Wow!

That sounds just like my girls. They go around saying 'pretend Mum....pretend dog...' because they have to make it clear that it isn't real just in case I get confused.

ouryve · 06/03/2013 13:18

:o that's lovely, Silverfrog! It's often impossible to know what's whirring away in our kids' heads, isn't it?

DS2 actually blew me away, himself, yesterday. I was playing Candy Crush on the iPad (it's a bejewelled style game). He stared at it for a few seconds, while I was playing, looking dead serious, then walked off to play with his leapster. He then came back and insisted I put my iPad down on the sofa and he put his leapster next to it. There's a game in the leapster camera pack that's played in a similar way as Candy Crush, but looks nothing like it, visually. He's only had a proper go at playing that game, once - he prefers to just listen to the music for a bit, then turn it off. Anyhow, he'd gone away and started up that game. He watched me playing for a few more seconds, then played his own version, alongside me for a bit :o

silverfrog · 06/03/2013 13:37

I love the way that she had to be sure I had understood I wasn't to bake her car... Grin

dd2 would say remarkably similar, tbh, which is also what made me Smile - if dd1 can get anywhere near dd2 (who is not without issues ehrself) in terms of functioning, then it will be a job well done.

ouryve - that is brilliant! am familiar with Candy Crush (Blush), what a fantastic connection for your ds2 to have made.

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lougle · 06/03/2013 13:52

DD2 is exactly the same Grin

She was reading 'Looking after Gran' today and she was reading slowly, as she does, being 5.

It said 'Gran put on her crash helmet'.

DD2 got to 'crash' and said 'where is the crash, I can't see it...'

ouryve · 06/03/2013 14:17

I think the effect of combining words to make a completely new concept is quite difficult for a lot of kids. Even DS1 sometimes struggles with the meaning of words used in combination when he takes each word in isolation, at face value. It's not even obvious idiom like "pull your socks up". He could know the meaning of settle and the meaning of in (though, being DS1, he would be inclined to enter into a rather philosophical analysis of the meaning of either word, completely at random) but put the words together as settle in and suddenly their meaning together has a particular nuance that is lost on him.

I have a feeling we have a lifetime of conversations about the strange things that words do to each other ahead of us :o

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