According the the LEA my DS is a suitable candidate for MS secondary school. At Y5 His levels are down on his review as Maths L3B, and the English 2A and Science 2C. However, I asked the school to do some independent testing..ie without all the 1-1 to keep DS on task. His Maths went down a whole level to 2B and the rest were down slightly.
Obviously DS will not have the same 1-1 support in secondary school and tbh I cannot see him coping without it. Homework is a MASSIVE issue as by evening he has just had it ....he paces, flaps (he has ASD/ADHD plus Dyspraxia) and generally cannot stay in task with anything which requires him to think. He can sit and focus on something which doesn't require him to think or is predictable but nothing else. At the moment he has one lot of homework a week (Maths, English and another subject) and that is a battle to get done.
I have seen four local MS secondaries at the moment and in all cases the SENCO has told me 1-2 pieces of homework a night and sanctions such as detention if not done. I have pointed out that DS has ASD and ADHD and that he physically cannot do this level of homework at the moment but to seems to fall in deaf ears.
Socially I feel DS could cope with MS but academically I know it is going to be a struggle for him and obviously this might impact upon the social stuff.
I have asked all four SENCO'S if their schools could meet DS's needs. All four have said that unless DS "is pushing level 4" they will struggle. ....especially as at the moment DS is unlikely to keep up with the homework demands.
The LEA says the SENCO'S cannot say this but they ARE saying this....and as such I cannot ignore it.
The last thing I will accept is for DS to be placed in a MS school who are only taking him because they HAVE to do so as this will not meet his needs at all.
As far as I am concerned the LEA do not care about my DS and will happily place him in MS and hope for the best. I am not prepared to allow them to do this.
On the other hand I know I will face a massive fight if I want to go down the special school route,
Any advice.